Publicly Judging

No one is perfect but most of us try to be as good a person as we can with the odd mistake thrown in, this mistake is something we usually learn from and then we move onwards but we have to be careful what we say about other people and moreso when it is public and online.

Most situations are best sorted out between the people involved rather than posting on a social media site for the world to read, some personal goings on are not for everyone to know about and it saddens me when people rant online knowing the other person involved cannot even have their say.

This rant opens the door for everyone who has read the post to then judge one side of the story because let's face it all they are reading is one side of the story.  I always feel that it is best to communicate with the person involved, sit down and chat or speak on the phone and sort it out, that might involve agreeing to walk away from each other or even to be polite to each other if both parties do not wish to be friends any more but think about the words you are writing for all to see, what does it say about you that you are willing to slate someone publicly and how would you feel if it was your name being ripped to pieces.

Be a good person that has kindness and love within your heart enough to keep personal situations private and just between the people involved.

Have a wonderful day my friends and may you be blessed with love, laughter and the kindness of special friends.

Rachel x